See this and that men and women weeping over his misfortune, joys and sorrows ah used to seeing, although, with age, people do not like it used blood, so the nosy. Now my point is this: first manage yourself, go to other people. Besides, I did not control yet. You always make irresponsible remarks, criticized by others thirty-eight fix. Not taking it every fox, got him a show. Strange not worth.
But how is a mild-mannered fellow, read something, I really could not help but blood boil. How so many people suffering in misery ah. Say that a baby cry, because he knows and came to this world is not pleasure, but to suffer here.
To some extent, the world is not much difference with hell. I am also a man who lived for twenty years, and ask yourself a few people to see, but also a lot, have seen the kinds of beings. This forum there are many single friends. Now we are looking for spouses of people who should avoid writing out, to share with you. When is the right to initiate criticism of the inadequacies we corrected it.
No one is perfect, can not be pure gold. First of all that, there is no perfect person, men and women are the same, but I believe that the following points are certainly not there! Remember, because these are difficult things to change in the bones, followed by people with these characteristics is to Daoda Mei's!
First, people do not say thank you
Or, others say thank you, but not the person you say, or mouth kept saying thank you, but you can clearly see that his heart simply does not understand the real meaning of the word thank you people, these two words when the mantra of the people. Obviously, this is not treat you as an adult person. They just do this and that you will use to complete their wish, yet does not express your true appreciation. Even if it is not to say a thank you, they just want to keep, keep, use others, they themselves are in the side of the loaf, like a parasite. Stay away from them!
Second, people with no credit
Just Shuiliaoyikuai to call you, but go down the drain man. Promised you something, do not do, with a "I forgot. Or, I do lazy, busy today," gave stall the past. Passed a long time, they have not realized their words. A person has no credit, is a basic human quality of performance. Deeper side of things here are: integrity. Imagine, that is, no promises of a phone person, you can rest assured that with his friends? You can rest assured as his husband and wife? Piece of a jigsaw, is evident. Seeing the big and small. A little thing he can not keep its promise, not to mention a major event. Do not own life with such people tied to the vagaries of the matter, it will make you heartbroken, and in the future, you gray haired, or married, too late.
Third, the selfish person
In fact, some of this with two points more than similar. Selfishness is the kind of people only to their own good, not to people other than their own as human beings. Two characteristics of the people mentioned above are basically selfish. Only a bowl of rice, he ate the whole, regardless of whether you hungry. You worked so hard to make a table of food, ranging from you he had a clean sweep. And so on ... ... this person is not to treat you as adults, but as a slave. They are the life of servants, is obtained only know that life, like worms, like human stomach, do not know to pay. Can you tolerate this selfish? I always wonder how the world would be such a person? Returned, and the existence of such people certainly have to accept this person's market. It shows that people have to endure the victims, selfish person who will be some special things, with which to attract - like most of the beautiful bad temper, and is only to value the beauty, ah! Can not do anything, and only with the good and bad. Want this, you have to put up with that. The question is: think it over, you can not stand my life.
Fourth, do not really love you
Find a person you love, it is better to find people who love you. This is the view of many people. You love and love you, and this is a rare situation. Extremely difficult, most people can not afford the passage of time consumption, and finally to find such a person. How can you treat heart him? Treat your dream lover (lover blog, lovers say) the same? On the contrary: you find the one you love, not love you. A lifetime of looking like a stone. It is also a stone heat it cover a long time. But love is not, and it is a feeling, there is no is no! You will spend your precious life time to prove your great? This great, compared to your precious life, what great is that? You gave the most precious lives wasted, what with the great return? Useless, like a pile of dog feces almost the same.
Five, refused to make a commitment, but who does not let go
Perhaps you as the last straw of it, I assure you, as long as until the last step, not immediately fall off the cliff of the crisis, he she will never choose you. You revel in their ambiguity, ambiguous feelings into it? Give me a break you, people just look at you as a last resort. Or put you as close friends, just want to pour out your feelings? Couples want people to do Bainianhaohe it? How do you have this idea? Have you as my good friend! You'll always be my true friend, you are my only friend.
I worry, the depressed, the male and female friends have trouble is that when I need you you, you have to call at any instant. And all the past, the calm and the clouds part, the fog lifted, and you have marching orders to go, can not be easy to please God, Send-off is difficult, actually give me more trouble!
That is absolutely not acceptable. You do not want to worry about fees! Because we are good friends? I express to you any special meaning? So you ignore him angry with her, after a not so long, he her a phone, a text message, again you want to give lit, too! Splint put on it, you naturally pull the life of grinding ass, ah, who told you so, unfortunately, met such a person Zhuer will use it, being used by Zizi it is also sweet. Tender trap, ah, that can not see the sun tomorrow, but dream like Ah Q, the same with drug addicts live in dreams it. Do not misunderstand ah! It was just an ordinary friendship. Friends do not all like this? Good friend? Please, do not torture our friends with these difficulties! They put it, for some people, like a lion to eat, like lamb, they do not ask the kid: you eat ah whether patriotic are we? How was your favorite way to eat ah? They will not ask you, whether patriotic is I use ah? ... ... Oh ... ... some people are born to love exploitation and unscrupulous, that is what we want to stay away from people.
Six, who thought very difficult to communicate
Again: Jia Jiao is not possible in the forest fell in love with his sister. First is not a class, one is petty, one is working for. I will not speak on the property, the number of poor, said the ink goes right. You say the two men to have exchange it? I understand it all too: smug dressed only know people who eat, drink, energy and a requirement mountains and streams, the Valley Orchids of people ideas it? Not other-worldly air, ah, ah is not highbrow, all meals on the toilet, but ... ... together with such people, will give birth to the child, the parents were so education can be useful to society people? Useful out of the question, do not harm society good.
Seven habits of people very different
Fox mettle difficult to move. I said it is far worse of the two people, poles apart, so that the two people together, no doubt a kind of purgatory for both sides. Together with their suffering, as in the beginning to stay away from such people. We are not teachers, there is no need to get rid of his habit of consuming their energy, leaving it, to find people with similar habits!
Eight, with its own very different people
People in this world, to find the other half is what the other half? In fact, that is, to find a second self. This self with you ninety-nine% similar, but in the end it must be a little different, at least it gender difference. Not a person, not into a door. Once, a couple of photos, I was surprised, and this twin-like, how are you? Difference is that some of the long hair woman. The so-called: seeking common ground while reserving differences. Which one can find a completely different with their own people? Sometimes, watching their very own troubles, and find one and the same person from the one that is not sick of it! But there is no difference, two points above said, and all his people far worse of all, two people are together, the two would mesh together as the new gear, a tacit understanding. I am afraid that both grinding scars, and it might as well begin again, to act in harmony to find a gear, adjustments later, we did not lose. Everyone who's hurt less, you look at some of these people are pleasing to the eye, comfortable.
Nine, no sense of responsibility
Together with these people, you can not see tomorrow, there is a clear blueprint for the future. Just a waste of their precious day in their youth, but also may be due to young age, mental immaturity. Conditions do not allow the outside world, But I can not become an excuse to avoid responsibility. No one's life is easy, our life and destiny are in the fight, so to speak, always press the gourd, and scoop up again. By a small scoop, and hoist up again. Conditions of the outside world can not be perfect, the world is changing, but it even a few thousand years, it will not change your mind so pleasant fantasy. The world is not for a separate existence of your own, and some things can not wait, to the same time. Stagnation of the world can not be said to adapt to your rhythm. Let me busy this, put that thing to put it. So you've done that busy, and busy with other things again. Then you may miss something forever, and missed what we'll never know.
Life, anytime, anywhere, ever, ever, have the possibility of random accidents. Because life is not moving in a given train track. It is abstract and mutable. We must learn to respond to circumstances, flexible to deal with the problem, rather than to delay, missed the best time, or spin in place Ineffective. A matter or to abandon the B thing, something to give up a B thing. Some can only occur once in a lifetime miracle will occur one after another at the same time, sometimes even three or four simultaneously. How do you do? Focus, the others missed, since it will never come to you.
You buy something, you have to pay. You want to enjoy your power, you have to fulfill it. The two are inseparable. While you enjoy, you have to take up that part of you should take responsibility. Man is the breadwinner, woman is having children. Do not want to marry a woman, not the children of men, are to escape censure, and they only know pleasure, these are the people away.
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