2010年11月3日星期三

Make a good husband for 15 conditions

Women have a lifetime of happiness is love, sweet, happy marriage, many women have been sweet love, but not necessarily be able to find a good marriage.
 
The so-called fear of the wrong people, women are afraid to marry the wrong husband! To marry a good husband, is a very good thing, so, you guys, keep their eyes open to find her husband, the firm does not meet the conditions can not be! After "careful" observation, when a man can do these 15, you can think of marrying him ----

 
1, a man of the most important should be strong. Those who failed once complaining, malaise, fell a man determined not to get up again. Men to give women a sense of security, if you find a husband, do not take care of you, they often cry in front of you own misfortune, so you can save the burden of his pain in fact, is the very failure.

 
2 and loyalty. Needless to say this, I believe all women are not willing to own husband affair.

 
3, there is tolerance. Must not find petty man, even if he loves you. But because the littlest thing to be jealous, whether you're out socializing with the boss because of the public or private gathering of friends with years of near, a scene in your home or gloomy face half-day pay any attention to your man, is actually selfish. Of course, he would say it was because he was jealous love you, but do not forget to love a person have to give her freedom, the sisters do not do in various ways by men in disguise you can stay at home doing laundry cooking housewife. Not to say that a housewife is not good, but as the present society of women, have their own social circles, to be independent, self-improvement, can not give the man his freedom do not find.

 
4, good health. Does not require the man how the mighty tall, but it must be perfectly healthy body. Something wrong with the body of a woman, you can call it fragile, sickly, if a man all day, and you say words like Han?

 
5, not good little. No one said not filial piety, filial piety is very good man, but a matter between the husband and wife are seeking the opinions of others, without their own minds, mouths and motionless said: "Mom, Mom said ... ..." in front of such a mother good little firm can not be, remember, you married a man, not man's mother.

 
6, around the. If a man really love you, love you all, including your bad habits, your friends, your family ... ... if he can not stand your friends or family or some deficiencies in people around you The discontent, then as a wise woman should avoid him to meet them; if he is demanding to ask you to cut off contacts with them, do not hesitate, and dumped him!

 
7, have a stable income. Love is very important, but to build on the basis of bread. Need not be enormously wealthy man, life must be protected. The so-called poor and lowly misery, even if a man does not take the child's milk money out of this month for the next month to start worrying about paying back the principal, then you followed him were the only cross to bear.

 
8, self-confidence. Exude confidence in the taste of men, allowing women to rely on confidence.

 
9, appearance matching. Do not ask him to be handsome, but looks Buzhi Yu scandal, can not you a big beautiful slim, dark side to find a shorter fat bar.

 
10, another taste carefully. He can not remember your great aunt's birthday Bo Xiaoshu Sangu four, but your birthday and wedding anniversary to remember, these two days in the marriage is very important. To go out romantic look, and gifts are the best.

 
11, no bad habits. Smoke can be drawn that the wine you can drink a little, but not too much. You always want to go back every day to face a drunken alcoholic, his mouth from time to time exudes a thick smell of smoke, are you?

 
12, social ability. Not saying that we must have hit everyone laughed active, see the hand grip was that stage, he does not need to have some strong social aspect of the wrist, but not timid. Go out socializing, he only knew stood giggling, but can not find the topic of conversation with your colleagues, always need you to come up the scene of the man, and you will tarnished.

 
13, big manly. Spirit here that the big man, not to say macho, that the typical household in the home that do not do clothes to food to mouth hand man desirable. Big manly means you are being bullied on the outside, he can come forward without hesitation for you to succeed, so true to protect you. This alone, this man is something you should consider life entrusted.
14, responsible. Man must have sense of responsibility, the courage to do their own things to themselves, whether business or personal. Something that started for someone else to push a man is not only despicable and shameful.

 
15, there is a peace of mind. The world has become accustomed to the success of the cause of a person to assess a person's value. In fact, a person's value lies in his presence is important to others. Even if that person can not be achieved in their careers, like everyone else's success, but his ordinary life of the people around him as much importance on behalf of the valuable. If a man can not be a peace of mind to look at her loss, all cynical, blame social injustice, resentment injustice of life, then you and him will affect your mind, easy to extreme, causing great for your mental pressure, resulting in life you are not happy.

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