2010年11月3日星期三

Between husband and wife remain attractive method

The river for a long time wandering in love couple, always wanted to find a landing place. Home berth of love, is a symbol of stability.
 
However, the picturesque marriage as the years may make it into ordinary. To make the "anchorage" to married couples for decades, not only in this world to compete for the difficulties encountered in breathless or too tired to think of it when the pain, and even in the calm of the flat light of day, still worrying about it from time to time, emotionally moved by it, in addition to the couple to promote high moral character, and enhance the sense of responsibility on the family, the best way is to deepen the love of husband and wife asked to do everything possible to allow marriage life is still immersed in an atmosphere of love, let the other day, there will be new expectations and new meet; and constantly improve and develop themselves to their new achievements, new style to attract each other, constantly conquer the other has been sinking their own heart.

 
For a pair of like-minded couples, they need to, as always, with the heart, with wisdom, with both hands, to create a new love life.

 
First, in the pursuit of creating a common cause of sexual gratification.
Love Qian years as a social emotion, doomed to be social, political, economic and cultural influence of many factors, not in complete isolation, solitary Fang himself. Love is the driving force, the cause of the sublimation of love. Hope that love must become the strong man who may not have much, but any sense of responsibility to society, love and hope that their attention to society, there is a strong sense of professionalism, the cause of a constant pursuit. Therefore, the marriage day affectionate couples, enclosed in their own small circle of individuals among families, love the temperature is unsustainable. With the new target the cause, husband and wife should be in the common pursuit of, and continue to deepen understanding and jointly overcome the difficulties and give emotional blend of new opportunities.

 
Second, adding new content, find new fun.
In addition to work, study and outside the home, family life, should strive to add new content and create a favorable environment for the development of feelings; such weekend activities, you can select and nurture a loving husband and wife together. This helps reduce the monotonous feeling.

 
Third, always pay attention to the couple asked the emotional communication.
Compliment each other, positive or remind each other, a praise in the eyes, the slightest comfort to smile, a warmth of recognition, will bring to each other intoxicated. Out their own back, or take advantage of each other birthday, send a little gift, will be in the hearts of lovers travel Dangqi ripple of love; his wife do the laundry, helping a husband in the past; husband, writing desk, his wife brought a cup of hot tea ; as well as to work around, I heard a gentle and cordial greetings goodbye, will make each other feel his (her) position in his mind, resulting in an satisfaction. Between husband and wife, transmission of information, express feelings in various ways, may seem insignificant small stuff, as long as can often occur in family life, can add a touch of tenderness between husband and wife, a trace of attention. Particular attention to having kids, the wife the husband must not "hang" in the side.

 
Fourth, to leave more space for love.
The combination of gender feelings, a combination of life, not the personality, the dissolution of personality, the two sides more than the shadow of each other, so do not force seeking inseparable. Otherwise, just make people stop eating, like loss of appetite, interest in the old dull people would stick together. The relationship between men and women, only some of the common fixed point, both sides can have their own friends and hobbies, to have more topics. When there are separate, only to miss each other's time. Each other, give each other a distance, a space, let to want to wait full of tenderness. Therefore, the appropriate small not to increase the freshness between husband and wife. As the saying goes, "Do not win the small wedding," Psychologically, this is artificially caused by the distance to each other the image of each other with ever new evergreen. Formation of a benign effect, in a sense, there is no distance there is no freedom, no distance is no attraction, time and space intervals tend to increase the strength of love.

 
A few people find it difficult to accept normal relations with the opposite sex lover, always worried that one day they will be "squeezed out", so often dried out some stupid things: love take a home phone or the opposite sex to the one opposite sex, or beat around the bush to inquire about other people, or the right to trial, as the guests left; it was also to announce the "discipline" and control the other's activities, including reconnaissance and letters, social intervention, and even track the chase, so that the other without any free time and space, etc. etc.; As a result, not likely to win each other's attraction, but on the contrary, the parties often placing themselves in the position of being indifferent. Can be see, "possession" was so difficult, so nervous, so heavily guarded, what love is that? Watch live by marriage, how much the meaning of love it? Love is above all a feeling voluntarily, is a strong attraction by the other side is also not push push open, cut also cut right through Qiannian. Since their competitors in the marriage can be love to overcome all the success, why marriage but there is no such style, but only by virtue of marriage certificate or a piece of paper to rely on each other's spiritual depression, to Gouyan has hand anything?

 
Fifth, as content, as Wyatt had those contents.
Beauty is human nature, both men and women alike. Married couples, to prevent the rigid, repetitive chores in the flat and in daily life, emotions and aspirations of the marriage becomes non-existent. Modified to note, especially women married later, the family can not dedication and sacrifice, as their sole meaning of life and obligations, ignoring the pursuit of a richer life. Headlong into the kitchen, played "old maidservant" role and become seeding, or slovenly, become old and dull. Even into middle age, even into old age, due to physiological reasons for men and women, men than women, long on charm, then efforts need more subjective, with a deeper love and a new understanding, to seek common ground, reshape their own style. Resident who can not be the amount of red, but "despite loss of innate beauty, artificial beauty is enough to compensate for" decent makeup and costumes, coupled with the deep, dignified and elegant, generous, and still gives a brilliant feeling. Although the natural beauty of a temperament that, but more is to nurture.
Sixth, more sense of humor.
Understanding, will it be possible for sexual gratification. The face of numerous altar complex social life, especially family life so trivial spoon ladle pots and pans, and sometimes do need a little more difficult to bear the courage and the ability to control life. The family humor, can reduce the psychological pressure, especially married life humorous language, and often can arouse emotional waves. Humor is the determination, calm, wisdom, ability symbol of the reconciliation of the family agent. People in the world, large has a natural instinct: do not want to hear their accusations. Never spend the couple forever, but more understanding and tolerant of each other bearing, and the world who did not complete the missing dollar. The first non-compliance is another vulnerability, either between husband and wife's subjective impatience, blame the accused, will tend to dull the emotional and atrophy, which is to be overcome.

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