What kind of man of the people looking for a wife?

Men are confused, because my friends are married, but he did not know what the woman looking for a wife. Thus, a highly respected man starting to look wise for the answer.
A man asked: I find I love to find a wife or a wife who loves me?
Wise man smiled and said: Actually, the answer to this question in your heart. Over the years, make you feel full of life, Student Groups allow you to continue to move forward and who is the person you love, or love you people?
Man laughed and said: But my friends tried to persuade the girl to find love my wife.
Wise man said: if this were the case, your life energies will be wasted. You used to love in the pursuit of continuous improvement process of their own, if not to chase a person you love, your self-improvement steps will be to stop.
The man said: What if my loved one catch it? Could it be ... ...
Wise man said: Because she is the person you love, you will find her happy, happiness is the greatest happiness in your life, so you will be happy to make her more continuous efforts. Being and happiness is not the limit, so do not limit your efforts will not be stopped.
The man said: I am not very hard?
Wise said: so many years, do you think you hard?
Man shook his head and laughed again.
Asked the man, so, I was not to treat people who love me?
A wise man shook his head and said, you need to treat the people you love you?
Man smiled bitterly and said: I think I do not need.
Man said: I love the requirements are very demanding, I will not allow a mixture of love, sympathy and compassion inside, she must love me from the heart. Although compassion is a kind of love, also brings a sense of happiness, but I hate this. If her love for me mixed with these things, I would prefer her not to talk to me or directly rejected my love, I can withdraw at the time. The more love because only deeper despair than hope it is some - is a moment of despair, suffering, and hope the pain is indefinite.
Wise Q: You have to say the answer!
Man asked: Why do men love a girl, she is in his eyes the most beautiful? And although I love a girl, but often found than her beautiful girls?
Wise Q: Are you sure you really love her, you are in this world who love her?
Men hesitate to say: Of course!
Wise said: Congratulations! Your love for her is a mature, sensible, sincere and profound.
Men a little surprised: Oh?
Wise went on to say: she is not the most beautiful girl in the world, but you still so in love with her. This shows that you do not love her beautiful youth. To know Shaohua perishable, the roots and old, do you love her beyond these superficial things, beyond the years. You love her people, is unique in her heart.
Men can not help but say: Yes, I really love her purity and goodness and childish. Wise man smiled and said: the test of time is not on what you love.
Man asked: Why are we together without a previous passion, more of a dependent?
Wise said: it is because you have in mind will be transformed into family love.
Man touched his head, saying: family?
Wise went on to say: love to a certain extent will be transformed into family. You will see her as part of your life, so that your heart will be some more tolerance and understanding. Only since the birth of your family is to God arranged for the family you have no choice, you can adapt to your family, do not speak any of the conditions to accept them, and they are responsible for their good.
Men thought, nodded and said: family is indeed the case.
A wise man smiled: Love is the beginning to appreciate each other, because the heart and fell in love, as inseparable from each other to get married. Only mutual tolerance, understanding, habits, and will work to adapt to life.